When we are mad, we are consuming our energy and time on negative forces that may or may not prove results. Anger is an emotion that we all have and when we use anger to our advantage, it often takes us further than blowing up in an uproar. Anger that strikes, hits, punches, curses, assaults emotions and so forth are negative anger that causes more problems. Dealing with emotions and anger is never easy when we have probable cause to become ignited. When others hurt our feelings, attack our intellect, and take advantage of us it can upset anyone. We are facing problems that include, anger, prejudice, mental illnesses, substance abuse and crime everyday. However, negative anger can only hurt and rarely help anyone. For example, we can look back on September 11 when a group of men acting out on anger affected the entire world. Instead of resolving their problems, they added more problems to everyone’s life. See when you expose uncontrolled anger you are not only hurting your self you are hurting other people. Anger is increasingly causing more problems for our entire world. Since we are dealing with terrorist, serial murders, child and spouse abuse and other types of violence, we know that the world is heading for disaster unless someone comes up with the master plan to deal with all the anger surfacing the earth. We can see anger has interrupted many lives and continues as we engage in wars. We have professional leaders that are unable to deal with anger since when a problem occurs violence is the ultimate result. Looking back at September 11, we can see that anger played a large role on both sides. The terrorist from another country was mad and acted on their anger taking revenge and all this was based on a belief. The American government retaliated and now we are still fighting almost six years later and little was resolved. What if the leaders were able to negotiate and talk out their problems with each other? If both sides would have shown more responsible and maturity anger would not have caused the many problems it did in this event. We can ask is there a way that the problem could have been dealt with. Yes, there probably was, but anger took control. We can also look back in history and review the other wars that plagued our system. The wars always affect us all in some way. The anger that is issued by one party or group played a large role in everyone’s life. It affects the economy, the environment, parents, teachers, children and anyone that is touched by anger. If we are going to get ahead in life, we have to find a way that deals with anger on all individualities. Anger is a sign of mental illness, substance abuse and common society. Some of us act out violently while others of us find a more suitable way to deal with our problems. If we use anger positively we are sure to have a much more productive life. In a way, we all rely on each other whether it is directly or indirectly. If you have a problem with anger, there are anger management classes to rely on, or mental health experts waiting to help you deal with your anger. If you have substance abuse issues that contribute to anger then alcohol and drug classes are free of charge to help you learn how to deal with your stress and anger. The people that attend most these meetings have their own problems and have found a way to deal with them more effectively. Anger rules the world at this point since we are all touched by the violence that plagues our system, but if we all take the first step to dealing with our emotions and anger then our lives will benefit us all. If you know someone that is dealing with anger show the person some patients and help him or her find the help they need before it is too late. Remember negative anger consumes our time, burns our energy and often wastes our money.

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When substance abuse is in existing then we are dealing with a mind that is shackled with anger. A person with an alcohol or drug problem often feels that the world has let them down. A person with alcohol or drug abuse often has difficult dealing with their emotions, anger and stress. When the person feels stress, they will often head to the liquor store or the nearby drug dealer for a fix. This is a temporary answer to the problem that adds more problems to the existing issues. Therefore, finding a more productive method for dealing with stress, emotions and anger is advisable. If you resort to alcohol or drugs for relief, you might want to realize that the world has more to offer you. Mental health services can go a long way since your problem is not directly the alcohol or drugs but an underlying source exists that links to the real problem. You probably lived a life and lacked development in your growth. You may even lack educational knowledge that helps you to see things in full light. You might even have a mental illness that is hindering your from living a productive lifestyle. We see then that alcohol and drugs is just another problem you added to problems already in existence. If you use your resources, you might see that doctors have medications that can help you to cope with stress or mental illnesses. You might even see that there are resources available, such as anger management, help groups, and so forth that can help you find a much more effective way to deal with your anger and stress. If you feel like the world is resting on your shoulders, then you might want to review your problems carefully. In many instances, a person has added problems to their life and is the root of their own behavioral issues. You will probably see that alcohol and drugs is playing a large part in how you behave in society. Alcohol usually makes us express our emotions freely without preservation. This opens us up to evil, since our perceptions, sound, and words are affected. This means you may misinterpret someone talking to you, flare up with anger, and possibly engage in a fight. Never take life for granted. If you believe that alcohol and drugs is the answer to your problems then you are on the road to destruction. Life is filled with problems and we all have to face them every single day. It is how you deal with the problems that enhance your success and coping abilities. If you have difficulty managing stress then you might want to review the triggers that ignite your emotions. For example, if you are visiting associations that adhere to negative living then you can see that new friends are needed. In fact, you will see that the association is not friends anyway. A good friend will not allow you to drive and drink, or take you to a bar if you already had too much to drink. A good friend will tell you to your face when you are doing something wrong and try to help you find a way to stop. Alcohol and drugs only increase your chances of exploding when your emotions are threatened. You might have probable cause to strike out, but in most cases, you do not have cause at all. I hope that this helps you to see that alcohol and drugs only increase anger’s chances of opening up and extending your problems. If you are an abuser then your path is marked, since if you are caught drinking and driving you will have more problems that what you already had. If you are taking drugs then you know that someday the police will knock on your door and ask you to step outside. Once those handcuffs go on, alcohol, drugs will be removed from the picture, and more problems will lead you to overwhelming stress, meaning you are adding something to what you could not face in the first place. There are people that care whether you can see it or not. You are not alone!

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When we have a grandiosity personality type then we are prone to anger outbursts. A person with grandiosity thinking may believe that he or she was centered out from everyone else when he or she does not get his or her way. People with grandiosity attitudes will say things like that was a lousy idea since those people are stupid anyway. A person of this nature may believe that other people would have behaved the way that they did in a similar situation. There are many traits to grandiosity that are disturbing and when a person has a disturbed mind, he or she is prone to anger. This type of person will have a difficult time dealing with stressors and stress and will often act out on emotions when they feel threatened. This means they are prone to assaulting others intellect, cursing at the problem, attacking another persons mental status, and even acting out violently when they are mad. This type takes us to a whole knew level of understanding anger, since a mental illness is often underlying the emotions. A person of this magnitude of anger is known as a narcissistic personality type. Paranoid schizophrenias, histrionic personality types and a few other have a grandiosity personality underlying the diagnose. When we see that a person is angry due to a mental illness then anger management may or may not work. Most histrionic personality types are firm in their way of thinking, therefore more extensive therapy is needed to deal with this type. If you experienced anger outbursts, you realize that you feel remorse after the interruption takes place. On the other hand, if you have a histrionic or paranoid personality remorse is not in the picture. A person has to have a sense of remorse to become subject to recovery in anger management. Although the psychotherapist may find a resolve, it will be minimal. Unfortunately, in some cases of this type of anger, there is no resolve and the patient may eventually destroy another person’s life. Uncontrolled anger includes, striking, hitting, punching, assaulting mentally, verbally assault, and even murder. Now we are looking at a serious problem since anyone is at risk of being subjected to these types of personality. A more common form of anger is a mild name calling, such as you were acting like a jerk. Alternatively, damn why did you do that? Some of us might even say why you centered me out as a target to anger. The person will raise the voice assertively, and often walk away when the person does not reply as he or she intended. There are forms of anger that can be dealt with and some are rooted from jealousy. Well, the world is acting out of accordance to man’s beliefs most of the time so in a lot of instances there is just cause. The problem is dealing with it so that it does not get the best of you. For example if you are married and suspect that your spouse is having an affair you might confront this person rather than accusing. Find out the details before you blow up and cause a commotion. If the person is cheating then you have two options. You can forgive the persons infidelity and move on or you can hire a lawyer and find a more suitable, trusting mate. I would choose the latter since cheaters are liars and thieves trying to get away with something, therefore the person are not trustworthy in most cases. See the reasoning behind this? Of course, it is going to hurt, but in the end, you will see that you made a good choice. If you decide to stay with the person, remember your forgave so do not bring up failures when another problem occurs. Failure is success flipped over and if you review failure in a positive light, you problems will reduce as you move forward in life. If you have a grandiosity personality, you will need help, since the mountains are more difficulty for you to climb. Do not be a failure control your anger before it controls your life.

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When we evaluate our thoughts and emotions, we can often find the answers to our problems. If you are prone to erupt when your emotions are threatened, it might be you are acting irrationally in most instances. When we evaluate we are studying a problem, the value of the problem, the solution to fix the problem, and the significance of the problem. When we evaluate our mind slows down and thinks before it acts. If you are lacking in this area you might want to start practicing now since anger only leads to real problems. Some examples can be seen in the following paragraph. Kerry realizes that her job is creating an emotional interruption, simply because her skills succeed the jobs requirements. Kerry realizes that she is underpaid and this is causing another problem in her life. Kerry’s situation is real, since Kerry realizes what the problems are and they truly exist in her life. Now Kerry can procrastinate and allow the problem to increase rather than reviewing her resources and problem carefully. If Kerry decides to evaluate her mind, she might decide to apply for another position or job while continuing to work at her present job. This will allow her to assume her life and have a steady flow of income while she waits for a better position. Once she lands a better career, she can then relax after the rush of the moment has ended. However, if Kerry acts out on her emotions, blows up at the boss and storms out the door. Kerry because of her anger out burst will not have a job, no money, and her future is at risk. The boss will be called when she lands another job and will likely tell the new employers about Kerry’s behavior problems. Therefore, Kerry did not fix the problem by evaluating her resources and emotions; rather she added fuel to the fire. As you can see from an example that emotions out of control and anger in action will increase your chances of failure and reduce your way in life. Decisions are an everyday part of life. If you are evaluating your life and making good decisions, you will almost never get off the course of life’s journey to success. On the other hand, we must realize when we are evaluating life that problems will arise and that we all must face the problems head on. Keeping a good outlook on life can help you to deal with your anger. If you realize there is no mountain we cannot cross over then we can see a way out of trouble. Let us evaluate mountains. If we are crossing a mountain, we know we need tools, rope, confidence, and a strategy to climb over. Likewise, if we are dealing with anger then we need tools, strategy confidence and hope to endure the road to recovery. We will only need a rope to hang our self with if we do not learning to manage our emotions and anger properly. Think of life as a roller coaster ride where there will be bumps along the way. In reality, the ride is intense, exciting and challenging. If you are challenging the potentials by evaluating your anger and emotions, you are taking control of a rocky situation. Again, most our problems are stemmed from our own decisions and if we learn to stop and think before acting we probably will have less problems along the road to life. If you feel like you are loosing control stop and think. Take a few deep breaths and gather your thoughts and emotions. Review the situation in front of you to see if there is a better way to deal with the problem. The only real way that anger becomes useful is if you are in a situation that is risky and there are no way out. For example, if you are in a fight and the person refuses to comply with your positive behavior then it is obvious something has to give since the other person is not reasonable. We can think of anger as a good force or bad force to see that anger either benefits or leads to a major problem in our life.

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Reasoning with the emotions to avoid anger can prove productive over time. Emotions need food just as our body needs food to survive. When we are producing an outward sign of truths to our emotions, we are enforcing our ability to manage our anger. For example, if you are reasoning that the current situation is unsolvable you are setting your emotions up to explode when a trigger is hit. How we perceive each problem makes a difference to the emotions. If we are thinking negatively then we will likely endure tribulation when we explode. On the other hand, if we feed our emotions with positive thinking then our life is heading down the road to success. This is where education comes into play. If you have a good education, you are learning strategies of life that benefit your emotions. If you are lacking education, you will be lacking in emotion and subject to erupted when dangers present itself. When we erupt out of anger, we are only throwing fuel on an existing fire. Most emotional problems stem from faulty beliefs and teaching, therefore education plays a large role since you are learning from many sources that can teach you how to behave in life. Most of us are taught to think logically in all situations, but from time to time illogical thinking can save a life. For example, reviewing an incident can help us to appreciate faulty teachings, beliefs and logic. A young woman is nearly murdered and finally escapes the hands of the angered person, and instead of going with her basic instincts, she decides to act out in accordance with what the people have taught, believed in and assumed the logic would work. It backfired and the woman was recaptured by the stalker and hurt immensely. Now, if she would have adhered to her own thinking, belief and teachings since she was a survivor experienced in trauma she would have fared better. She believed by running to a lighted area would provide her a source of relief. Instead, it only helped the culprit take control. If she would have trusted her self and ran to a dark area, she may have escaped with fewer injuries. After the culprit recaptured her, she had to use her emotions and head and avoid anger. Instead of joining in the violent act, she submitted her self to the predator, praying that he would stop. She thought about the scene carefully roaming her mind searching for a way to escape. There was none! She then wiped her blood on the man’s shirt believing that if he killed her the evidence would help the police apprehend the man. Fortunately, her prayers paid off since her car for no apparent reason caught fire and drawn attention. If this woman had not used her head to maneuver through the horrific incident to date she would be dead. Now we can see that anger only enforces problems, rather than help us to reduce the problems at hand. If you feel you are overwhelmed with problems you might want to review this account to see that your problems may be smaller than you have made them. We all add problems to our life by stressing over things that are not in our control. When we learn to take it one day at a time or appreciate what we have, we are taking the steps to control our emotions and life. Reasoning with the emotions to avoid anger is simply. If you are thinking, negative thoughts flip it around and put the cards in your hand. Life is like a game of poker and the leader has control since he has the royal flush. You are holding a pair in your hand, but you have control since the cards will be dealt again. When you are reviewing a problem, take a look at both sides to see where you fit in the picture. If you are adhering to behaviors that instigate the problem, find a way to resolve by taking a positive approach and deal with your anger. Good and bad comes to us all, but the power is put in our hands by dealing with emotions and reasoning with the source of the problem.

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